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A Day of Exhaustion and Quiet Purpose

Today was one of those days that leaves you physically drained, yet deeply fulfilled in a way that words can barely capture. We had a retreat with ACOM PHQ at TNK—a place of quiet beauty, owned by the sisters of the Anglican Church of Melanesia. The setting itself felt like a gentle invitation to pause, reflect, and realign. Even though the retreat came on short notice, it carried a clear purpose: to review ACOM’s workplace conduct. What could have been just another formal discussion turned into something more meaningful. There was a sense of sincerity in the conversations, and by the end of it, the outcome felt both successful and necessary. Looking back, the past few weeks have been full. We hosted visitors from New Zealand—members of ACOM’s management board—which added another layer of responsibility and expectation. I had submitted a report from my division and quietly assumed that would be enough, that perhaps my role in that space was minimal. But today reminded me that sometimes...

A Day in Town: Prices Rising, Struggles of women, High Cost Of Living

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Introduction   Today was the day I have set in the past days to go shopping for skirts and other new clothes. I was blessed enough to have been accepted as the new project manager for the JCPU ( St John Coleridge Patteson's University .  It is a new University built by the ACOM ( Anglican Church of Melanesia ). Monday will be my first day of work after almost two years of being unemployed due to family problems encountered. Thus, I am so full of excitement to purchase new clothes. It would be a new working environment and experience for me especially where the rules are quite strict for ladies.  Women must wear skirts in church areas like this in the Solomons . Wearing short and long pants in church areas like this is considered being disrespectful.  Hence, I am very much looking forward to this day to shop for decent clothes especially skirts. Inside Island's Clothing Outside Island's Clothing  Shopping: Rising Prices As I parked at Point Cruiz Honiara's CBD ...

Early Thurs-day

Introduction  Its 5Am in the morning, a loud bang on the door and suddenly it swings open, walking in the room, Ivory! Wake up and drop me off at the wharf, a stern command that arouse me like I was brought back to life from the world of dreams as my eyelids slowly opens to the reality of the moment another bright island morning and I am ready to share a piece of my Solomon island life with you. Honiara Wharf I left my uncle's house at Baranumba to drop off my Aunt ( Mum's Sister) at the wharf. She will be departing for Auki Malaita Province at 7am or 8am. She is boarding Auki Express a privately owned vessel by Franjti shipping a locally owned shipping company. It is the most luxurious and convenient vessel that people prefer much than other ships. Auki Express has proper seats inside where people can be seated comfortably during the voyage. It is also the fastest.  It only takes 3 hrs from Honiara to Auki. Other ships however, the bigger ones took 6 hours compared to Auk...

Clash Between Tradition and Mordern Life: A reality for women in Malaita.

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When Culture and Modern Life Collide: The Women of Malaita In Malaita Province , women continue to walk a fine line between modern expectations and traditional customs . While modern life brings education, independence, and the freedom to choose, culture still defines how a woman should behave, speak, and live. This ongoing clash leaves many women caught in between — struggling to find balance and a sense of identity in a fast-changing world. The Traditional Role of Women Traditionally, Malaitan women have been the heart of the home. They cook, care for children, and support their husbands in gardens and communities. A good woman is expected to be humble, respectful, and quiet. In many areas, men make the major decisions, and women’s opinions are often left unheard. These customs have shaped communities for generations and remain strong today. The Arrival of Modern Influence Modernism has slowly entered Malaita through education, religion, and technology. Young women are now attend...