Title: When Peace Becomes the Greater Victory

By Ivory waki / Solvoice
The whole of last week was both satisfying and relieving for me. The long-standing issue with the contractor has finally come to an end. The final resolution from PPIC was signed, the variations were verified, and the payout to the contractor was raised. For my part, I declined to be a witness to the resolution. This was not because of disagreement or resentment, but simply a personal decision—an exercise of my right to step back after everything that had unfolded. Through this experience, I learned something deeper about working within church institutions like ACOM. In many organizational environments, the focus is often on being technically right—ensuring that every clause, every condition, and every loophole in a contract is addressed. But within a church organization, there is often a higher priority that guides decision-making. Peace. Peace between people. Peace between the parties involved. Peace within the institution itself. Sometimes, from a purely contractual or professional ...
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My Current Work Fashion

By Ivory waki / Solvoice

 This is my current work fashion—something I’ve been wearing since I started my new role as a Project Manager with the Anglican Church of Melanesia (ACOM).

At first, it was quite intriguing. I found myself wondering what my work outfit would look like in a church-based organisation like ACOM. Coming from a construction background, my idea of workwear was very different.

In church premises here in the Solomon Islands, women generally do not wear tight long pants or boots. This felt a bit contradictory to the health and safety dressing standards I was used to in the construction industry.

This placed me in a tricky position—trying to balance professional construction field attire with religious values and cultural expectations of modesty and decency. It wasn’t easy at first.

Over time, I’ve managed to find a blend that works—one that I’m comfortable with and genuinely pleased about. While it can still be a little challenging when I’m out on construction sites, my style now respects church values, cultural norms, and my professional role.

I’ve grown to love this new look. I’m still exploring and refining this balance, but for now, it feels right—and it truly represents where I am in my journey.




















Current Work Attire

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